I just feel like when I tried to protect her,they'd questioned why, and I refuse to poison my sons againsT their mom, she's in a bad place right now and I care for her too much.
In terms of being a man, I feel they need to stick up for themselves and not get walked all over buy their future wives. But they also have a duty to be a good husband and a she secure supporting spouse. Also a real mN does not do what their moms AP has done.
Years ago I met a,woman at work, I was married about five years, at first she was a good friend but then she wanted to hold my hand sit on my lap, etc, she was sending me cards. But she was recently married , and we were married about seven years. My judgement came into play as mulch as I was falling for her. I , me, stopped it, I told her that she's a Newley wed and sometimes after you get married doubt sets in. I also pointed out I was married and loved my wife, hence why I never held her hand, and told her not to sit on my lap. ,but then I said even if I was not married , I feel its inappropriate for a man to start a relationship,with a married woman no matter how unhappy she is or how much she's the initiator. She told me she thought she loved me...I told her that she was mistaken and needed to direct that love at her husband.
I left the company and she was one of the reasons, I have no idea what happened to her.
That to me is part of being a Man!
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965