(oh, and you grill AND you shoot guns?? HOW ATTRACTIVE!!)
Why, yes. Yes, I do!
Actually, I never knew I liked to shoot guns (or that I'm actually a really good aim - lol) until H left this time. I have a long-time friend who is a cop. (He's the same one H has always thought I have "something" with, even though he's married and we've been friends for years.) The thing is: I like creating mystique. GAL is one thing. But I don't want to out-and-out give H the impression that I'm carrying on something with someone else. Does that make sense? And I'm thinking this shooting-guns thing - while true - is just fueling H's suspicions that "something" (or someONE) is there, even though we are not even legally S at this point ... though that day is getting close.
But regardless, H is carrying on with his life ... and his A ... and, even if he suspects I'm getting too close to someone else, he sure ain't tryin' to stop me.
So, onward ... I think?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
I totally forgot to journal here about a couple small things that DID happen this weekend, Saturday night before prom.
H texted to tell me his parents had made it into town and told me they were eating. He asked if anyone at the house wanted something to eat and encouraged me to "take advantage of (him) being nice (insert smiley face here)." I told him that would be great and gave a list of three things for S7, D2 and me. H and his parents got here, food in tow, but we quickly had to leave to catch DD16&17 walk into prom.
Later, I was hanging with friends and texted H a quick, "Thank you for dinner!"
He replied: "Is it what you wanted?" And then wrote: "Your girls looked absolutely amazing tonight. Good job, momma."
I just replied: "Yes. And thank you. :)"
Dinner stuff? Nice. "Your girls"? ... when he's raised them since they were 4 and 5 years old? Ouch.
Oh well. I brushed it off and moved right along ...
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014