That was the plan, I asked what she wanted to do on our planned day together. She started going thru each day and made suggestions. I am baffled by her behaviour as she is normally avoiding contact but now seems to be actively encouraging it.
She seems keen to spend a lot of time with us when before it was the opposite. Just not sure how to approach it but focusing on the boys seems the best approach.
She asked me if I had decided about Sat nite but I said I was going out. She just said ok and that was that.