"protect my boys and show them what its like to be a man!!"
Okay, so what does that mean? What is "being a man" mean?
"(its none of my business about what the think of their mother)"
To a certain degree it is your business because she is still their mom. While you can't control HOW they feel, you can control how they interpret her actions. If you don't teach them how this, they will carry on their own feelings about their mom into their own relationships. You can minimize that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
