Things are getting weirder and weirder.
From someone who wanted to spend no time in my company a few weeks ago this is on the agenda over the coming week.

Wed night:
She has asked to come to MC with me, I haven't asked her why as we haven't had any R discussion at all for a few weeks.

Easter Sunday:
She will have the boys Sat night thru to Sunday.I asked her what her plans were for the rest of Sunday, she said she had none. I said I was planning a Easter dinner for me and the boys and she was welcome to join us ( she has refused invites like this dozens of times) she accepted straight away.

Easter Monday:
We will have a full day together with the boys.

Easter Tuesday:
We will do something again with the boys.

Now this is a total shift from her.
I have been quite disciplined in the last week or so by asking her nothing and being calm and pleasant around her. I have also only responded to her calls or texts, I have intiated nothing.
Now I don't know or even think she is changing her position in any way but it's definitely a change in attitude in some way.
I'm waiting for the volatility to return any moment though..