If the kids weren't such an easy excuse I wonder how much harder it would be for us to interact.
That's not where you are so why do you go there?
Your default is set to "I'm not good enough" or something close to that. Is that true in other areas of your life? Could explain some of that need for control comes from, what do you think.
About the book...if you can drop it without judgment (and you don't believe the person who wrote is a threat to your family) then do that but don't bring it up later. You have information about her that you're not sharing with her, R are built on trust. If you're going to let it go, you must truly let it go.
Speak now or forever hold your peace.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
