I am not wishing to have primary household, for financial reasons. My worries are based completely on Daughters best interests. I wish to be very involved in her life. She needs a stable home environment. STBXW has moved several times,in the last year and a half. She has lived in 3 different school districts. She has also jumped feet first into a commited relationship, with a man she met only 5 months after we split. I just don't think that is responsible parenting, and I worry about the choices stbxw might make that will impact daughters life. THAT pattern was already set in place with stbxw's own up-bringing. Her mom has been married 5 times and has relocated all over the place. Without getting too into it, she is a poor example of a "real" parent. stbxw always expressed that she wanted to break that cycle, but in the last year and a half she has been following right in her moms footsteps. I want my daughter to have a healthy, stable home....that she can still consider a home 2, 5, 10 years from now.
