Yes, we don't even know what tomorrow holds and you've got your XW having grandchildren!

I know you're venting and that's OK as long as you take positive steps to remove yourself from the victim stuff.

Can you do that?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss