I didn't invite her she was the one who suggested we do something over the easter break together. I hadn't made a decision until after last Sunday and our day out. based on that I then thought it would be ok as it had been a very good day and I was more relaxed about doing it again. it is about the boys as I know they need both of us at the moment. I will be taking them away abroad for two weeks in June for what was to be our dream holiday and unless things take a major change she won't be going. I know this bothers her and maybe she is trying to show that we can spend time together. I still think theres more to it though
