I am father(41) of five two boys 9,8 triplet girls 5 in July! Wife(34) has been having emotional/physical affair since October. Have read divorce busting and tried most techniques with no real results. At our lowest point now outed her affair with my sons ex baseball coach who was just divorced in January an has 3 young kids of his own. She now openly admits to me and tried to hurt me with admissions. Quotes me the law and says I cannot stop her and cannot kick her out. Since KY is a no fault state if I file infidelity would not be a major factor in custody. So pay to pay her not a good option. Plus much worse financial situation with 5 kids. She thinks she is in love with him and no feelings for me. Counseling did not work as she was not willing to try. Unsure where to go from here. Same house five kids no options
