I'm sad that since H and I only have 4 dogs in common, after his main move out early May, we wont have much opportunity to see each other for me to DB. H is taking 2 dogs, and I'm keeping 2 dogs. I do still plan to detach and GAL and work on myself. As H will be in an apartment, and dogs are Jack Russell terriers (VERY active dogs--too much for inside apartment all day), the plan is to have H drop off and pick up each day to the back yard for "doggie day care." I technically wont have to see H. I'll not express any more anger to him if i DO see him in back yard. Unless OW is in car with him in MY backyard!! I'm not sure what I'd do if i see her.
Any suggestions?

by the way, the header "funeral for a husband" might lead some to think H died. Should i change it? is it even possible to?
Thanks for every comment.


M 56 H 52
M 13.5 T 15
S 28 twinStep Ds 24
ILYBNILWY BD 1/5/14 OW 4/11/14
Divorce petition efiled 5/5/14
Divorce final 7/8/14