I'm really only putting this out here to prevent myself from doing it, as I know you can't reason with a WAS, but I'm fighting the urge to have a very controlling judgemental discussion with my W
I'm tempted to explain how the OM wants nothing really to do with her, is using her for sex, and that she will regret what she has done and is doing. Her cost for all this will be so high, her family, kids.
But of course, instead of having this discussion I wrote it here, to prevent it from even being an option. Sometimes it makes so much sense when it pops in your head, but I know reasoning will not work. Instead, I'm off to coach my son's baseball team.
