Thank you. I will never give up on this, even if we get divorced. Her sister has said if its meant to be then we will get back together. obviously I'd like to stay together but a part of me feels like she would be more certain about my changes if i kept doing lrt even after divorce and would be willing top reconcile then.
I have 2 family members who divorced and later reconciled. So yes, it happens.
It was a few years before they got back together, but absolutely the changes "appear" more real over time, b/c they ARE REAL, when it has become habit and lasts...
Hang in there...and don't cement things in her by confirming that "no change" has happened in her.
Just take her words at face value for now, not necessarily believing them but not challenging or confirming them. The more you challenge her choices, the more you force her to defend/explain them. That does not help you.
Being the best most loving father WILL be noticed by her. Regardless of her commenting, it is absolutely noted. And It's a turn on for mothers, believe me. Be the best dad you can be and a good decent man.
Be a man only a fool would leave.
What GAL are you doing lately?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
