Learning how to communicate correctly is one of the keys to successful relationships.
So true! Even by improving my own communication skills alone it's helped my situation a lot! Amazing how just listening or changing a few words can have such a drastic impact!
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The difference is that I believe with all my heart that our relationship is very, very fixable. He just doesn't see it that way.
He can't see it that way at the moment, the only way he will see it that way if he's going to is in his own space & time. Nothing you say will help or make him see it the way you see it (believe me I tried earlier on!!). That's why it's SO important you focus on you & your D and try to leave your H to it as much as you can, detach!
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This was a good reminder that it's only stressful if I *choose* to feel stressed about it. (Working on the anxiety issues...)
EXACTLY!! Great you can come on here & find perspective
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
Your struggles today, develop strength for tomorrow...
