Wife wants a divorce

[VFL]

No, she has been talking about signing the papers off and on since she dropped the bomb. Sometimes a day or two in between her bringing it up but nothing has happened to make her bring it up again today. She is a very determined woman and when she knows what she wants she goes for it.

I just don't get it. She's so pleasant around me. I expect her to be pleasant when the 3 of us are together but I expected some distance from her when it's just the 2 of us. She talks about being still being friends after this is over. I know I have to be in order for any chance of reconciliation but it's hard when i feel like she's ripping my heart out.