At the core of what I wrote to her was standing up for myself, not saving my marriage. Am I supposed to be standing up for myself or just staying out of her way?
Part of me feels like you were doing more than standing up for yourself. Maybe that is just how I interpreted it.
To answer your question specifically, IMO, you do both. You stay out of her way (mostly because YOU should be living YOUR life) AND you stand up for yourself.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
