Upwards - Moving Fowards, Tiny Positive Steps

[Upwards]

Tough few days but thankfully think I'm coming out the other side, my hormones really play havoc with my emotions & detachment, need to take note next time & be prepared for it!! Hoping tomorrow will be brighter as feeling a lot more level headed now, phew!

H has cut contact with OW, he's given me access to his phone account & will show me he's blocked her etc when I next see him - I have no idea how long it will last (he says there is no time limit on it, until we know what's going on with us) so I suppose just need to keep my distance but it means as can interact about the kids/business etc. I'm remaining "dim" at the moment, leaving him to do the contacting & not always answering when he does, no pressure & lots of space, no R or future talks - I've done some new small goals and refreshed my 180s, focusing on GAL and being confident/happy.

I would not ask until he begins to talk about seeing you more, etc. B/c it sounds very pushy.

OK thank you Sandi, makes sense & I know timing is important.