So you think I should go ahead and spend a day with her and the boys again? I'm just concerned that she is cake eating. Also, dilemma number two for me right now I mentioned that she had asked me to have the boys this Saturday night, which is her night and that I had a theory that the OM is home on a visit this weekend. Well she hasn't spoke about it since Sunday but I'm sure she'll ask again, I am going to refuse as I do have plans although I could still have the boys as I am just having a friend come up for the night. I am going to tell her we are going out. But it will be a worry that she might put the boys to bed and then invite the OM around to hers.My eldest gets regular night terrrors and he might get up in the night and if OM is there it will freak him out.He is already struggling with our split as it is and it's only the stability of him being at home that has settled him.He doesn't even like sleeping at hers. I don't want OM near my boys, its not as if he will ever feature in their lives, in fact if my theory is correct and he is over it may well be his last visit for quite a long time. I think she plans it as a last farewell. I could be completely wrong but its going to be a worry for me.
