I don't get how you say it's a double standard. I mean he doesn't live with you so it's not like he can go out to the car in the first place. It would be a double standard if you dropped her off at his place and he refused to help.
It just sounds like you are finding things to be angry at him for.
Could be. I have been guilty of that. However, he definitely lacks empathy (that was an issue in our M), so part of what makes me angry is that he doesn't seem to understand exactly what you said-- he doesn't live with his D anymore... therefore when I bring her home tomorrow night, I will have to find a place to park and carry her and whatever stuff we have in all by myself. Whereas he can just call me to run out and get her, and he'll be on his merry way.
Maybe it's just harder to not be driven by emotions on a holiday. I basically have ceased to exist to his extended family. Hard to not be sad about that-- thinking about what I am missing out on tonight, including time with my daughter, watching her play with her cousins, etc.
