jp is giving you great advice, their are no guarantees here, except that if you work on becoming the best YOU can be then the guarantee is that YOU will be an AWESOME person.
Your husband probably has lots of work to do on himself, let him do it, he may not even know that he has to yet, however it is not your job to FIX him.
Per your other thread, I see you reaching for answers.
Your answer is no, your not alone.
That is about all you can get from asking. All the reasons in the world wont make you feel better. You are hurt and mad and you should be, that is OK.
What drew you to him in the begining?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
