He may not be feeling the same consequences that you are but he WILL feel the consequences, if not right now then later on.
Thanks. I think about this a lot. He believes that a D will have no negative impact on our daughter because he believes that his own parents' D (WA father) had no negative impact on him. Yet, he is much, much closer with his M than his F. And has no relationship with his SM or her 4 kids, even though his dad left his mom for SM when he was very young and has been married to her for over 30 years. He truly believes that the situations are not similar. I'm sure he believes that he won't be like his F. And that is enough to make him feel like D is the right choice.
