Haven't posted in a bit, but I have kept looking to see if there was any responses. We had a mostly 'up' week and she seemed to get closer to me before the weekend. There is an overall feeling of wanting to talk about the R but I am not sure WHEN it is ok to do that. So we keep coexisting in the house and essentially living our separate lives when we're not at home. I have another appointment with my IC and hope to make more personal progress on myself then. Until then, I watch for any words from the good folks here.
Me-39 W-39 M-2 T-7 BD 3/31/2014 Still living together