You are so right. When I heard that, and then she told me that as well, it burned me up inside to think that she feels she could just waltz back in to my/her life and our M
That's when I realized I was doing something wrong if my message wasn't being received. More I wasn't sending it, or aligned with what I was doing. I can say anything, but if my actions don't align, it's meaningless.
Going to try and ensure she is aware of where I stand with my actions, and establish some more space
Thanks again Train. Best of luck with your situation. I'll be watching and hoping your reduced contact continues to make you feel better.
