Great question. At first I was seeing her daily. We have since set up a pseudo schedule which gives a bit more regularity to when she will be at the house. Initially, due to concerns for my kids safety, I have been keeping her visits to when I am work, at my house. She didn't really want the kids to spend a lot of time at her house.
This appears to be changing, but her living situation is now up in the air. We are probably both hesitant to introduce the kids to a new house and then have her change homes. Too confusing for my kids.
Whew, I guess the simple answer is yes, I see her probably 4 days out of 7. I try to treat her as a "friendly neighbour" Nothing else, nothing more. Sorry, I often add too much detail, and go on all kinds of tangents
