Paul, you are doing great. Yes, the tears and the bad days will come . . . but overall you are getting stronger and happier.

I have someone coming over tomorrow to help me pack up what is left of H's stuff and put it in the garage so he can pick it up when he wants.

This whole thing [censored], but we will get through it, and there is a great life waiting on the other side. ((hugs))

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14