The sooner you start to think that there is no "we" at this moment, the sooner you will recover and maybe one day be able to talk to her about this issues.
Making those things harder by not being willing to try communicating effectively... not ok.
Trust me on this, the only one making things harder now its you, she has gave you her point, doesnt want to be with you or communicate with you, you dont accept this, instead you try to control it and while you do that, you keep as others told you keep been in the grill....
Imagine your W as a house now, this house its on fire!! And the house its empty, so you try to go inside to see the effect of the fire and you carry a glass of water... What happens? Well you burn yourself... Every single time you burn yourself, are you helping at all with the glass of water?? Nop
Wouldnt be better to let the house burn, recognize that you are powerless and meanwhile work on yourself? Yes, that would be the best, once the fire its gone, then you can go inside the house or buy another one, but you are not going to burn yourself in the process....it will definitly not help.
So now choose, you wanna burn yourself or spend the time that you have now taking care of yourself??
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
