4th Down And Getting A Little Anxious

[ericmsant2]

Georgiabelle

As other have mentioned, you need to protect yourself first and foremost!

H is continuing to behave very impulsively and I am concerned he may be fired in the near future. He worked sporadically during our m (was fired from every single job ) and I want to protect me and the kids financially.

I would do some research to find out how this MIGHT impact you. In my state, a person’s “earning potential” is used to determine any sort of support payments. This was done to prevents someone from intentionally losing a job or taking a job making significantly less. I believe that once you have the facts you will feel better.

He said he may want an attorney versus working things out ourselves.

Since he has mentioned lawyers, if I were you, I would go get a free consultation. Knowing YOUR options is NOT a bad thing.

I have no problem going that route , however, since h suffers from clinical depression, anxiety, and anger issues, I'm afraid a custody battle will look like a Maury episode.

Ultimately, you have no control over, which way HE decides to go. If he is depressed and has anger issues – I would not be afraid at all. Are you afraid of HIM? Do you feel that he may harm you or the kids?

There are many, many stories that would come out about him and his own parents will testify against him as they are concerned about the safety of the kids.

Why are HIS parents concerned about the safety of the kids? Are you? IMO, if there is ANY reason to be concerned about the kids welfare, that is something that I would not take lightly. Securing resources on your end (Lawyers, Family Services) to protect THE kids should be your first step.


Georgiabelle – divorce busting site or NOT…the safety of YOU and the KIDS should be your highest priority. I would contact and attny asap. Arm yourself with the facts and then react from a place of knowledge.

Peace,
Eric