Having a plan in place is a HUGE help to PMA! It gives you power back. Now you aren't waiting around for her- you're just waiting until your plan falls together. Good for you!
I'm a big fan of moving to different areas- especially if you have no family keeping you stuck in one spot. You only live once! Figure out a way to get to Hawaii, Aloha!!!!!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5