Survive and try to thrive...I know we need to establish our boundaries too, and I am not sure what mine are yet aside from one important one: I am not willing to initiate a legal separation or divorce. Similar to you LN, I do not plan to do much to make that happen. That will be her doing, and in the meantime I will continue to detach to protect myself either way. The day I met with my friend and received all the insight was the same day I found an apartment 2 miles from my children. I move in May 1 and they are ecstatic. W has agreed to split custody so I will get to be the father I want to be again...Best day this year so far.
BD OM EA 9/2013 ICAYBDNLY 10/2013 I Move out 1/2014 Separation draft sent 5/2014 S13 S13 S9