I am so sorry that your H is being what I have determined a jerk. Removing the relationship on FB - how childish is that? All these jokes about you dating and such. He sounds like he could be related to my H. Funny how similar the stories are in these blogs. Your H is probably like mine where he gets a high from my pain, and it makes him feel more in control.
My H in the beginning would be intimate with me. Then afterwards he would say I should not have done that you will get the wrong idea - ugh why don't you just stab me right there. Then it turned to this weird thing where he would fake sleepwalk to be intimate. I let him do it for awhile, but once I discovered he was having Pa with OW, I cut it off. He still does try and I just take him back to his room. The great thing is that I can say whatever I want when I take him back to his room, because he is sleeping (I have to admit I have said some really not so nice things, and enjoyed it.) He will not have physical contact with me while he is awake since we had a huge physical altercation that he blames on me and says he is scared of me, of what I might do. UMMMMMMMMM...I did not start the fight, and I am the only one with bruises. I cannot believe a man would admit he is scared of a girl - espically since I have lost so much weight I weigh less than one of his legs.
Now his relationship with OW is hot and heavy. But he says they are still just friends. The thing is that he has something going on at work and could be fired if they relationship is found out. I feel like telling, but know he would come back to get me.
I am sorry praying that your H is putting you thru this. I hope that you are dealing with it better than I. For some reason last few days have been awful for me. I assume by your name that I can add you to my prayers. Have a great one and good luck!
