Barrybran - Yet Another Thread

[Barrybran]

This is the response I got. It is very clear and I am very happy with it. Sure, there are signs of distance but I am more concerned with establishing good communication than I am with our marriage right now.

Communication obviously is completely [censored] atm.
You've ASSUMED I would ve able to pay for the car all the while knowing exactly how much I earn and how much I generally have left over.... do the math. I ultimately got the credit card for emergency so I would NEVER have to ask you for any help.
Before this we had a discussion about rego and you said you'd have enough money to handle it. Case closed. That's what I was under the impression was going to happen.
Not sure where you thought I'd be finding $1400 for everything in that short time.
As for the dentist yes I asked for help and I am so glad I didn't need your help in the end.
I am trying to be more independent. This is what separation is. Being our own parties but being dual parents.
If that's not clear enough then ill start writing down everything in future and clarify it down to a tee.
Do not make dinner. I'll do it when I get home.
Stop washing my clothes. They're my responsibility. Do the kids if they have any. And I will do the same when I do mine.
We can set CLEAR concise boundaries. That way neither of us ASSUMES anything ever again.
All bills regarding household/cars etc will be split down the middle.
Anything regarding the kids will be done the same way.
I'll spend time to myself for an hour Tuesdays Wednesdays and Thursdays (depending on meetings days may change) you can use the other 4 days.