Oh Julie- I want you to know that I support you. You have really stood so strong against all your H anger and downright borderline abuse.

He is not an example to his children and seems to be breaking down. I am so sorry you had to endure that. Why would he have you on speaker phone with OW? What could that possibly accomplish? I'm glad you are meeting with a lawyer. Whatever you decide to discuss there is your choice. I'm thinking of you!!

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014