I think I belong here #2

[praying_in_GA]

My H is the opposite. He is fine with the occasional hug, kiss, or even intimacy. He is, however, worried about leading me on or giving me false hope when he participates in those activities. Even doing dinner with me for my birthday made him worried I would get false hope for our future. Whatever, it's my birthday and we all eat dinner!

Today I made a passing remark about 'one day you're going to wish we were still together'. It was all part of a lighthearted joking conversation we were having about going out or something. Anyway, he looked down at me (he is 6'4" and I am 5'2"...he literally looks down) and said "Yea, you're pretty cute so I probably will." Seriously? Just shove it in your pie hole. Whatever.

So, I didn't mention he FB thing to him at all. I didn't even let on that I knew it had happened. I KNOW he is trying to get a rise out of me and that won't be the case.

As I was getting ready for work we were talking about his graduation ceremony. He only has 4 tickets (it's in Dec so many months away). He said he was thinking I could come, his parents, and his sister. I said I looked forward to it and then I could also meet some of his girlfriends. He laughed at that saying they weren't all his girlfriends...yet. He said I needed a boyfriend. Then he said we should go out together and be each others wing-man. He has this need to move us into the friends zone. Hanging out and going out like we did in 1999. He keeps mentioning that I need to date and I need to sleep with someone else so I can move past this marriage. He seriously needs to shove it.