Ok so this is what happened. We met at the collaborative divorce table to see if an in-house separation would work for a bit, just until we paid down some debt. It was going to be tough to pay all our expenses and $1,200.00 per month for rent for her plus buying furniture etc. I at first when she went to Israel had no problem. But then when she came back with OM and stayed with him for five more weeks I was not for it. But she is on the mortgage with me. So they said I can't legally lock her out. So the fact that I saw all her clothes in the closet and her favorite teddy gone, and these new skirts that I think are a little short for a woman over fifty no matter what shape she's in I was like, forget now I don't want her here.
Also when she told OM she was moving home ( he's played this entire violence angle,) he purchased her a ticket for Israel in June! I know when she leaves again I am going to have to tell her to not come back...I won't be able to deal with it.
It's a nightmare
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
