Anyone who knows if it is normal to get past the original issues, the MCL goes back like it was fresh and didn't drop those issues long ago? Why my wife would say the mean awful things she did and then lay next to me and accept my loving (non-sexual) touch an hour later when she has been avoiding my touch for months? Especially after just telling me she's leaving and is 90% sure we will never get back together again? Why she is being nicer than ever (although a very fake nice!). Please somebody tell me this is normal MLC behavior. I'm so angry at her right now! I was ok holding onto she is going through a hard time, working through her issues, now I can see not only has she not been working trough them she is back to making up the same old stories she stopped saying long ago. It makes me think not only hasn't she made progress, she is moving backwards since her trip to see dad!