Hi bug. Out with s12 at a hockey game and tailgate party...wearher is great today.. Sooo much fun. I am continuing to keep busy and detach. I did ask W to empty her closet please. Sometimes i chat via text or phone with a new friend. We've had coffee 2x. She is kind and i enjoy visiting with her. She understands where i am in my walk and we have no illusions of rushing into a romance. But its nice to just visit.

Life is calmer this week. I've been dojng some good reading. I see so many things i did early on that made things worse and caused my W to be more disrespectful or distant. I am learning as i go and so thankful foe the support and advice from the group.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14