Yeah I agree with you Sandi I know that there is something behind this but I haven't worked it out yet. I intend to continue with LRT and not let her manipulate me. I am slowly beginning to detach and if I'm honest today probably didn't help me with that. I have a theory that the OM is over for a visit home this coming weekend. This Saturday coming is her night with the boys and she asked me today if I had plans and could I swap? I didn't give her an answer because although I have something in mind it isn't certain yet that I will be doing it so I told her I would get back to her. If he is coming over then its likely thats the reason for all of this, however, she has asked me to swap many times over the months and knows I normally agree anyway so she wouldn't need to go to all of that trouble to ask me so I'm not sure. Got to stop over thinking things I suppose, If my plans come together for Saturday I am going to say no anyway. In fact I should probably say no either way.
