I decided to go ahead with the day out, mainly as the boys were so excited about going I didn't want to disappoint them
I could have predicted your answer, word for word. And people talk about the WAS having script!
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So now I am wondering what this is all about, its obvious that we are still able to spend quality time together, it was relaxed and everything felt so natural, so what is going on??
She intended to give you a wonderful day, and now it is working on you just as she knew it would. You are wondering what it all means, and why was she smiling the way she did, etc. And you think it didn't affect your detaching?
Not that you'll do it, but you really need to pull back immediately. She is playing you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
