You've answered your own question. You didn't abandon your h. He suffers from abandonment as a child. That's his deal. You CANNOT fix him. Reread Job's advice.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
