Feel free to hijack my post! 5 months ago when he opened up I talked to him and then upped the intimacy - it lasted for 2 weeks then he told me no more. Then he stayed away for a few weeks and then he was receptive for about a month (I found that month OW went back to boyfriend.) I can talk to him about day to day things, but when I try to communicate about anything deeper I get monster. I continue to try and hug him and give the occasional kiss, or try to hold hands. I get pushed away. The only intimacy that has happened in last few months is when he is fake sleepwalking. Although, the last month I have not allowed that because I know his relationship with OW has turned to PA. I don't try everyday to give a hug or hold hands as I know that can be frustrating to a MLC. It is so hard because I know that he wants affection, it just seems like he does not want it from me because I am the enemy and at fault for everything. H was abandoned by mom at 7 years and then dad abanoned him with other wifes as he let them treat him lik sh...
Mr. Bond what do I do? It seems like everything I have done is wrong. It is hard to get someone close when the are also MLCing. HELP?????????????? Anyone HELP?????????????
