All I've read in your posts is about your H being selfish and his A, etc. But I don't remember seeing you write about the things he complained about the M in detail. You just said that he felt abandoned for 10 years. In what way? When the kids were born, did you spend more time with them than him? Jumping straight into LRT just means that you agree with the D. It certainly doesn't sound that you are.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.