Nothing unexpected here, just can't see how this ever gets better...
W talks to her friends and just outright lies about everything I ever did or said. It's just a feeding frenzy. Still puzzles me that people who have never met me are so quick to pile on. Hard to imagine that this can stop. Complete lack of reason. "If I stay, what does that say to the kids about staying in a bad relationship...", said the WAW in an A with a married man. The irony. And she's plotting about house, kids... I'm afraid the full damage will be done before she realizes what's happened.
But I also realize that if this doesn't stop, if she does go through with it, then she is not anyone that I want.
It still drives me nuts though, because some of the things she complains about could be easily fixed if she committed (nope), if I could trust her (nope). And because they can't be fixed now, they just continue to be grist for the mill.