I understand that ye but we can't stay completely NC long term so at some point I need to take a step to change that because at the moment H's mum is being the person in between & I can only stay away from our business for a short time before that suffers.

I will need to go to LC/dark from complete NC in the next few weeks but I'm unsure how to do that as it will have to involve a discussion with H to change things... Plus I need to ensure that he isn't able to cake-eat as he absolutely will if he's able to.


Divorce Final: Oct 2014

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