Upwards - Moving Fowards, Tiny Positive Steps

[Upwards]

See I'm worried that complete NC is just going to make us grow further apart & then we have no opportunities for positive interactions... It's really difficult to be completely NC because of the kids & business too.

If I move to LC/dark I don't want H to view it as though I'm going back on the boundary of me "not being in his life" or be "friends" whilst OW is either?

Thoughts on this?! Should I remain NC for the rest of the 2 weeks (as we planned) to see if he cuts contact then just go LC or do I need to tell my H that's what I'm doing?