super excited !!! xbf made plans earlier this week to go to a movie with my DD for tonight. I was really happy that he made plans in advance with her. Today, he brought cookies and coffee, casual convo & then we were back to work. He had mentioned that my daughter had texted saying movie choices were slim for tonight and he suggested dinner. He was mentioning that he wanted to go see Hustle, I said ya I did too, but not really a movie to go with DD. He agreed. Then a little while later, he casually said "if you don't have any plans tonight, maybe you'd like to join DD and I for dinner". I didn't say anything right away. I was casual. Said "ya, maybe...let me think about it and ask DD to make sure she was ok with it too". Then he left for a little while. When he came back we discussed a few options for restaurants.
Oh, another thing... He had packed a little go away gift for me (margarita beer, gum and power bar) in the suitcase I was supposed to take on my last weekend away. I found it today.
So... I am excited!!! But, without expectations because I know he is a nice guy and is possibly just wanting company/family time without attachments. Its really hard to understand that he could want just this without the relationship. I am trying to keep my head on track here and just enjoy the company. I will not take over the convo or get all decked out for tonight with heels (like I want)... I will be casual.
My glute exercises must be working.. he was sure to comment that todays client was checking out my butt!! (I don't have one), so I said "what butt?" he said that my butt looks good in my new jeans... and that he noticed our client checking me out. I was thrilled and excitedly enthusiastically said "THANKS!!"
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
