I suspect she will open her little bag of tricks, so be prepared for anything from her. Right now, she wants to see if she can crook her finger and you will run to her. Of course she is being sure to label it "as a family", but if you will act disinterred in being with her, I think she may try harder to see if you'll cave.
But it does not mean she is ready to reconcile, or even thinking about it. Women are very complex creatures, so don't try to figure it out. Just don't be confused by making something out of her actions, and don't be caught off guard.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
