Hoping for positive changes

[artsy]

H just left. We spent about 4 hours running errands and doing yard work. It was nice- not nearly as awkward as Thursday. I think we're both getting past it. Two positive: he had several opportunities to talk about the lake today, and did not!!! Lol! I'm prepared more for it now, but I just find it encouraging that he has figured out (hopefully) that it's a trigger for me. Also, he's trying to hang out with some different people. That would be good for him, for sure, and would definitely not be bad for "us". He also mentioned he may not go out of town next weekend...interesting.

He also caught himself referring to the house as "ours", but cut himself off in mid-sentence. Lol

As a bonus: he did a "pop in" visit yesterday evening and I was out GAL!!! He asked me several questions about it today. This is the 2nd time he's tried to just drop by and I haven't been home (this is a huge 180 for me- I had become a homebody the last few years, and that was one of the things he complained about at BD). So, he is definitely noticing that.

Absolutely GORGEOUS day here in Ohio- 73 and sunny. Great for a PMA!!!!