One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

Hi Blues,

I talked with a DB counselor this morning for the first time. He agreed with what you are saying. He does feel that we are in the testing phase. He feels that she sees I am doing things that she wanted during our marriage and starts to question her decision and then fights her internal fight. He feels she will continue to try and push my buttons to see if she can get the reaction she expects from me. He told me that I should find a non confrontational way to address the children's well being without giving her the reaction she would expect.

Thanks for the kind comments.