You have a scary, volatile situation. I can't see how her moving back is going to make things better. People who are pressured into situations, no matter where the pressure comes from, can react in very negative ways.

Again I ask, is your wife moving back OK with you? You didn't really answer above.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss