I guess I'm a bit curious how others would proceed in my situation. I sent over a proposed settlement March 18th, and have not heard back from W or her attorney if she agrees, disagrees, wants something else, scheduled for mediation, or going to court. W's attorney stated in an email to my lawyer prior to us sending said proposal that W was anxious to get the divorce finalized and put this matter behind her. Actions aren't lining up with that in my opinion because she has the "kill shot" in her grasp for the last 3 weeks and hasn't taken it.
My options are to 1) do nothing and wait it out, 2) email W and ask her what she thought after reading through the proposal, 3) have my attorney contact hers and ask the same question.
I'm confused based on W's actions. At the risk of mind-reading, she contacted me December 23 and stated she wanted the divorce finalized by Jan 1, 2014 so "we both can start the new year fresh." Here we are April 12th and still slowly poking along. There's no contact from her or anything to indicate a change of heart, but I'm confused as to what she's up to or waiting on. Any thoughts or input from your experience?
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
